How to Manage Your Time when Meeting Women - Part 1
Dating can be your best friend.
…OR your big enemy.
A lot of time, a man can feel like a slave to his natural need to procreate.
Then there’s that common phrase, “He thinks with his… You know.”
Well it can be tough to NOT think that way if you aren’t sensually satisfied.
But men are also goal oriented.
We make our actions to achieve things and influence the world in a positive way.
I’ve personally faced one of the biggest challenges and it is balancing the two - my carnal obsession and achieving my goals.
Dating can take a lot of time when you are single. Women will suck away at your time if you don’t know what you’re doing.
Before you know it, you are spending hours in the park, feeding the birds and cuddling… there’s nothing wrong with spending a quality time with your girlfriend, AS LONG AS YOU DON’T compromise YOUR GOALS IN LIFE.
Goals take time, likewise to women.
In fact, it’s their NATURE to take up a man’s time - it’s her way of getting you to invest in her. That way there’s less chance of you leaving if she gets pregnant (this comes from our caveman days, so to speak).
Managing your time with women can get really tricky. You see, most guys WANT to give women their time. Men are by nature the “givers.” They like to please women, protect them, and give them good feelings.
There is also a urges in men that completely take over your thoughts.
Both of these things can get in the way of you making the most time of your life.
I want you take a moment and ask this to yourself, “WHAT DO I REALLY WANT TO GIVE TO WOMEN?”
Now I bet it is not about “money,” or “control over my life,” or “lots of my free time.”
It was probably something like “relaxation, excitement, feeling of safety, good feelings, sexual pleasure, make her smile or feel good about herself, etc.”
I think men have problems with how they use their time with women in two ways.
First, they think that the gifts they REALLY want to give aren’t that valuable, so they overcompensate with other stuff - like spending too much time or money on a woman.
Second, they think that when a woman spends her time with them, they are “getting” something valuable.
Society brainwashes guys into believing that women are a prize to attain, and that there’s some inherent value in a pretty face.
It’s a LIE!
The best naturals out there see women for what they are, nothing more, nothing less. They are cute, sometimes fun, but ultimately not that important, AND THEY CAN’T COMPLETE YOUR LIFE!
Now it can be really hard to break out of this mental prison of feeling inferior to women.
It is hard to notice the mental habits because these are subtle and you’ve been doing them for years.
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